A Tale of Two Lives

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times. Paraphrasing this iconic statement is how Carla Dean of Titusville, Florida describes her journey with Chronic Granulomatous Disease (CGD) and her two childhood lives—one at home and one at the National Institutes of Health (NIH).

By 9-years-old, Carla had already lost one infant brother (likely to CGD) and suffered stretches of unexplained infections. After years of tests, her family physician referred her to NIH where she finally received a diagnosis of CGD. It was then that they broke the alarming news that she wouldn’t likely live past the age of 18, and certainly not past 30. “A part of me didn’t believe the doctors,” says Carla. “It didn’t make sense, and I was determined to defy the odds and prove them wrong.” As you can imagine, turning 18 and 30 became important milestones in Carla’s life. Now 55, she shares her story with IDF.

It was the worst of times. Over the next several years, Carla would endure long stays at NIH and five leg surgeries to remove bone infections. Back in the 1970s, Carla’s CGD was treated by cutting out the infections followed by a round of antibiotics. During this period, an older brother with CGD was tossed in a Florida lake when his canoe capsized. Three days later, he was dead from an infection. “We know now that these bodies of water harbor microorganisms that are specifically dangerous in CGD but the threat was a little unclear back then.” A period of relative health followed before her liver abscesses returned. Because the doctors felt Carla had had too many surgeries, they began treating her abscesses with antibiotics and catheter drainage under the guidance of ultrasonography. “I spent many childhood birthdays at NIH. The staff became my second family. I remember they would bring to me bunnies from the labs to play with as a special birthday treat,” she adds with a chuckle.

It was the best of times. “People say that coming face-to-face with death can really open your eyes to the way to live your life,” explains Carla. “I suppose that is true. It gives you a different perspective.” Carla credits her CGD health challenges with her early development of a deep sense of gratitude for life, as well as feeling more love and compassion towards others. Although the NIH doctor’s momentous words were spoken more than forty years-old, there is virtually not a day that goes by that Carla is not aware of making decisions based on them. “Recognizing early on that my time is finite gave me the courage to be true to myself, and to stop postponing my own realizations of what’s truly important in life.”

This past summer, Carla attended one of the special CGD information sessions at the IDF Family Retreats and was able to share her experience and wisdom with some of the younger attendees who are newer to this journey. “This retreat was a game-changer in so many ways,” says Carla. “After dealing with this diagnosis most of my lifetime, I thought I had learned everything there was to know. I was wrong. I learned so much during the IDF retreat, and it opened up a new world of friendships that showed me I was not alone.”

“Yes, I had these two lives as a child. But as an adult, I’ve been able to integrate them,” says Carla. “CGD isn’t a blessing per se, but because of it, I’ve tried to be open to anything—positive or negative—that has come into my life. It gave me this amazing perspective on life and connected me with some truly remarkable people that would not have happened otherwise,” concludes Carla.

 

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